9 Psychological Moves To Tell Your Angry Parents That You Love Someone Without Getting Killed
You know you’re responsible enough to love someone and your parents doesn’t really think so. Introducing your lover and convincing them isn’t really easy. How to convince your parents that you love someone?
Shhh…I can hear the rushing of someone’s heartbeats…Dhak..Dhak..Dhak..! Hush, Take a deep breath and read the rest
It is super confirmed that you are in love with your “the-only-one-from-now”, and you have a big picture to be done just around the corner. So what is the next crucial step ?
Obviously, to convince your parents that you have found your better-half. Well, is it a no-win situation to hit upon?
Absolutely no, on the face of it, this isn’t as tangled as you thought it would be.
Yes, sweetheart. We are here to make it easy for you. Remember, everything goes well, when it is done right. Read on and let us together untangle your worries.
[Also read: How To Make Any Girl Fall For You]
Step 1: Spunk Up Your Courage
Needless to say, this inevitable point in your life starts within yourself. Yes, honey. You must stand up for your love ( after all, who else will ).
Even if it sends shivers down your spine, you must get the nerves up. You cannot leave your partner’s hand, just because your parents are out of line about your love. You need to keep on the promises you have given at the root of your relationship. If not, you could have wiggled out earlier.
So, this is not the right time to get cold feet. There is nothing terribly wrong in finding your RIGHT partner. At the end, our parents wish our happiness. If we can convince them that we are on our right decision, everything is picture perfect. *happy dance*
Step 2: Hatch A Game Plan
On to the next step, we create a ground plan, just like we are planning for a perfect crime !
From now, I am your virtual crime partner. *blush*
Well, you can’t expect your parents to accept your love all of a sudden. Timing is the key here. A millions of questions from them will blow you off, if you introduce your partner all at once.
It is always better to get things rolling relatively 6 months before you break your big news. Lead him/her as your best friend. Let them get familiarized with your would-be. We don’t recommend any sycophancy.
Stay unmasked and get your parents floored in love. You can watch them go “awww” than “who, when, what”, after you finally shoot up your wedding plan. Cheers honey.
Step 3: Kick Around The Perfect Time
I know you hate homework. But, not this time. Analyze the situation and timing before you unfold your love scoop.
Are your parents in a really bad mood ? Is there any hectic business tensions along your dad ? Does they had a terrible day at work ? If so, step aback for a while, and wait for the perfect day to make it happen.
Step 4: Put On Your Baby Face
Before you break into your big news, you must convince your parents that you are responsible enough and is ready to take yourself into a serious relationship. Yes, mamma’s child or daddy’s girl has been grown up to tie a knot with her loved one.
Hook the attention and gain the confidence. Help them with the daily house chores, like washing the dishes, chopping vegetables, serving dishes for dinner and many more. It is better to land on a job or a biz, to let them believe you are self-sufficient, not a lazy lad.
Step 5: Do It Yourself
Hello, you aren’t going to put across the love story of your best friend. You are punching in to reveal your own big news. Who else will do it better than you ? Don’t get anyone else to voice for your relationship.
After all, your parents are more thoughtful when they hear it from you. And the presence of any other person will make them defensive.
Step 6: Dab A Hint
It is always better to give a starter-hint before you break into a big one. Do this with your softer parent. In case, if it is your mom who is more connected with you, divulge the secret with her.
She will back you in the lead. Even if she doesn’t lend you any support, no harm done. Just give her the time to accept it, cheer up.
Step 7: Break Your Big News
Now for the most important move:
Finally, the perfect day punch the clock. Approach your parents and reveal your life’s biggest decision. Check your tone while you say this. Never get annoyed or high-pitched. Have a balanced tone. Stop getting nervous when they heap you with tons of questions.
Have honest answers at your fingertips. And never behave harsh on them. All these happen because they care for you to the core. Above all, you are their little angel. Just put yourself in their shoes and handle the situation with love, no matter how offended you may feel.
Step 8: Connect The Two Ends
Get them assured that you selected the right partner for you. Put forth the qualities which made you attracted to that person. And officially meet your partner with your parents. This will take the whole bond into the next amazing level.
Step 9: Clinch Your Harmony
Get together with each others cousins, relatives and friends. Let your parents realize, you both are compatible for each other.
And Live Happily Ever After
So what’s more ? Wedding bells are ringing for you !
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